Staying Safe
Protecting Yourself
How to Stay Safe at Home
If you are experiencing an unsafe environment at home and are at risk of domestic abuse, follow these steps to help keep you and your family safe.
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Keep your mobile phone charged and on you at all times.
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Agree on a code word with trusted friends and family so that they can call the police if you text or call them.
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Talk to your children about ways to stay safe if the perpetrator becomes abusive. Tell them NOT to intervene as this could put them in further danger.
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Teach your children how to get to safety.
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Teach your children how to call 999. They need to be able to say your full address in English.
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If your neighbours are aware of the situation, let them know that they should call the police if they hear a disturbance.
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If your partner becomes violent, try to stay away from the kitchen and garage or anywhere that might have potential weapons.
Always remember, you are not alone
Domestic Abuse is a Crime
The Police have a duty to protect you and your children. You should not be discriminated against because of your immigration status.
Protecting Others
How to Help Those at Risk
If you are worried about a family member or a friend staying at home with an abuser, you can help her access safety and support.
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Do NOT approach the perpetrator about his behaviour. This could escalate the abuse and put you, your friend and her family in greater danger.
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When it is safe for her, offer to make regular contact by texts, phone calls, video calls or emails to check if she is at risk.
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Agree with her on a code word that she can tell you or text you when she is at risk so that you can contact the police for her. You'll need to call the police on 999 and give them her full address.
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Encourage her to seek professional advice and help.
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Be patient, respect her time and be there when she needs you.
Remember, she needs your support NOT your judgement.